Thursday, October 20, 2011

Unproportionate freedom

Over the decades, women gained a lot of freedom. I would call this unproportionate, the reason being, women were suppressed since centuries and over the decades they gained equal freedom as men do.
And a bitter facts comes in, that not all women are matured enough to exercise their equality and freedom.
Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Men can't do a women's job or can't be women. They cannot be as caring or loving as our mother, sister or wife are. Women are incomparable here. Here comes the real problem. Women think they can just do whatever men can do. (May be). They are so passionate about proving this that they forget what they are best at, they fail to be mothers, sisters and wives. It is really happening in our society. I'm not saying that women should sit at home, take care of children, cook food, only be a house wife. Absolutely not. Apart from enjoying their freedom and equality, they have to deliver their duties which they are meant for.
One incident I would share:
One day, I was traveling in a bus. There were a few empty front row seats in the bus, marked for ladies. I noticed no one was there to occupy, I sat down. Just then in the next stop, a women got in and came by my side and showed me the sign, meant for ladies. With due respect, I got up and occupied the next front row seat which was empty too. She turned back and showed me the sign again to remind me that men shouldn't be sitting in the seats allocated to women. Uttering no word, I just stood up and kept standing till I got down.


"Finally I would conclude to say, the society still respects women. The rotten stuff is there on both sides. Women are unequally equal and not all women are matured to understand the responsible freedom and independence they have. And people who understand the difference between rights and privileges, I call them matured".


This post is in reply to http://smriti-simszone.blogspot.com/2011/10/youre-woman-youre-nothing.html